At what stage is it ok to just dig something out and admit it wasn’t supposed to be in your garden? Is it ever going to flourish if it’s been fed, watered and even moved to what the label implies should be ideal location and it still sulks away never quite dying but looking as if it’s going to any day?
I don’t like to give up on something I saw and loved and don’t want to feel like I’m committing a plant murder but really!! surely at some point it must be ok to fetch the spade.